Histrionics Go Apeshit Over Boob Grab

September 26, 2011

Long story short- Policeman restrains unruly protester and accidentally touches her lady parts. Hundreds and hundreds of Tumblrites go apeshit. No seriously, these people are livid:

ladyatheist:

fuck the system, wall street

lovexzoeie:

Did he really fondle her breast? Please tell me he did NOT fondle her breast! WHAT THE HOLY FUCK????

Garland Grey:

How insulated must a person feel from the consequences of their actions if they are willing to sexually assault a person surrounded by, like, a million cameras?

tw: sexual assault, police brutality

Trigger warning: sexual assault and police brutality

africabumbada:

Fuck those fucking pigs fool real talk

queennubian:

This seriously makes my skin crawl and makes want to throw up! My blood boils looking at this photo! Fuck those who have power and use their dick to get away with shit!

language-arts:

The real reason why their is no media coverage of this, is because if there was the nation would riot. People would come out of their comfort zone and demand to know why the hell this behavior is being tolerated.

muthafuk:

Y’all leaving the picture in full view and then putting a TW after someone would have already seen it and possibly been triggered by it, is basically asshole-ish.

People should be angry over the widespread “in your face” corruption that is happening on Wall Street. But these kinds of protests always seem to attract the mentally unstable and that doesn’t help ANY cause.

Histrionic troublemakers are just attention-whores dressed up as concerned citizens and that distracts people from the real message that needs to be communicated. Instead of taking this important issue seriously, reasonable people just shake their heads. They ignore the message because the messengers are acting like rabid animals.

Blowing things out of proportion is what histrionics do best. Histrionics who have been sexually-assaulted are particularly explosive when it comes to the slightest hint of impropriety. I am not so naive as to believe police don’t engage in this type of behavior. But let’s get real.

This rally happened on the most famous street in America. Thousands of people were gathered and watching. Cameras were everywhere. Does anybody in their right mind actually believe this cop took time out of his crowd control duties to cop a feel? (no pun intended) Really? Let’s take a deep breath and think about this for a second.

Histrionics are easily swept up by irrational fears that people are out to do them harm or take advantage of them. Such is a person’s state of mind when they have a history of being abused. These are not so much activists as they are survivors of childhood abuse. They aren’t protesting so much as they are acting out. Children raised in chaotic environments will become addicted to chaos. They will replay the drama of their past over and over again.

These people were conditioned their whole life to be troublemakers. And when they find the trouble they were screaming for, they turn around to play victim. Spend some time observing histrionics and you will see this pattern over and over again. You can even point this out to said troublemakers and they will still continue making trouble and playing the victim. They will continue antagonizing the world, and then have the audacity to act like they are damsels in distress.

At one time, these people WERE victimized. But now they are just playing the role. There are lots of emotional rewards for playing and staying the victim. Attention and sympathy are highly valued amongst these people. They are crying wolf, but the wolves are in their minds and in their past.

15 Responses to “Histrionics Go Apeshit Over Boob Grab”

  1. savorydish said

    Y’all leaving the picture in full view and then putting a TW after someone would have already seen it and possibly been triggered by it, is basically asshole-ish.

    The person who said this is missing the point.

    If you are so emotionally traumatized that you can be triggered by a photo then you should be in treatment.

    Not wandering through Tumblr looking for things to get upset about. You should be seeking help instead of staging protests.

  2. savorydish said

    if this blog fills you with rage… guess what… that means you have tons of unresolved rage that comes from your past. Until you seek treatment you will always react with inappropriate, irrational and uncontrolled rage. You can’t spend the rest of your life hiding on the internet. Real life does not come with trigger warnings.

    If you are triggered by intimacy, you will always feel alone. If you are triggered by people telling you the truth about trauma-related disorders you will never get better. If you are triggered by anything that reminds you of the past, then good luck finding happiness any time soon.

    • savorydish said

      Baiting is a passive-aggressive form of abuse. Basically, it works like this- a person instigates hostility (even escalates it) and when the other person engages (takes the bait), the person who instigated the hostility suddenly plays victim. Like going to a protest to start shit and then screaming “rape!” when a cop tries to apprehend you. Like attacking a blogger because you don’t like his viewpoint and then when the blogger fights back you scream “harassment!” Or worse, treating loved ones like shit and then when they fight back you accuse them of “abuse!”

  3. savorydish said

    The hypersensitivity, the over-reacting, the extreme emotionality- What you are witnessing here is exactly what makes these people abusive. These people are not in control of their emotions. They are literally out of control. That is why they tend to antagonize everyone around them.

  4. savorydish said

    False accusations are very common amongst traumatized people. The Tumblr comments show exactly how false accusations are made and what they look like. Their ability to perceive what’s in front of them is distorted by past traumatic experiences.

    • savorydish said

      When someone baits just so they can make false accusations, it reveals a secret agenda. This person is going out of their way to incriminate someone, anyone. They are punishing someone in the present for crimes that were committed in the past.

  5. savorydish said

    Survivors of sexual abuse are obsessed with gender and sex. If you read those Tumblr comments above, they are telling you that somewhere in their history a man sexually violated them. They are crying out for help for an event that happened a long time ago.

    • savorydish said

      If you think this type of wild behavior is reserved for protests and riot police, you are failing to see the pattern here. These people are addicted to drama. Where there is none, they will create it.

      If you are unlucky enough to be in a relationship with such a person, you will get a taste of this drama. The more involved you get, the more dramatic. The more intimacy, the more they will act out. If a relationship is going too well, they will find things to protest about. They will bait you into fight after fight and then accuse you of being abusive. That is how these people are wired.

      These are abusive personalities who have been raised in abusive environments. Don’t let the do-gooder act fool you. These are silent abusers. They are crafty and manipulative, so you will never see it coming. But that’s what makes them such efficient abusers.

      The problem is not you or the relationship. The problem is they were victims of trauma at one time. These people play victims in relationships as well. You will eventually be cast as their tormentor. They will turn everyone against you the same way these protesters are demonizing the cops. They will recruit proxies to attack you, just like they have done on Tumblr. Trust me on this. I have had a long history with these kinds of people.

      If you are in a relationship with someone like this, you will see this exact behavior play out. You will see them bend and twist the truth. You will see them misinterpret every effort you make to keep the relationship from falling apart. They will hate you for trying so hard to keep the relationship going. People who were abused fear intimacy and therefore they will fear you. Thus they will do anything to sabotage the relationship, including making you the enemy.

      • savorydish said

        Character assassination is nothing new for these troubled souls. The Tumblrites above have a history of attacking people with wild accusations. I have experienced this personally. These are people with demons in their past that haunt them to this day. Attack mode is the only mode they know.

      • savorydish said

        It doesn’t matter if you are a good person. It doesn’t even matter if you’re a cop. In fact if you were a bad person (an abusive personality), you’d probably get better treatment.They will attack your character because that is the only weapon they have. It’s how people with unbelievably low self-esteem bring you down to their level. They are projecting onto you the turmoil they have bottled up inside.

      • savorydish said

        Histrionics make wild accusations without any thought about how it might adversely affect you. They don’t care that it will ruin your reputation or that it might ruin your life. The histrionic only cares about lashing out. Any notion of social justice being served is a cover up. This is a person who is so messed up they can rationalize the irrational. Take a look at Garland Grey’s explanation of the alleged boob grab. This is a perfect example of how a traumatized mind works. This is why histrionics are the least likely to get better. Their mind is a tangled web. A web they have spun to explain the rage they always feel inside.

      • savorydish said

        This seriously makes my skin crawl and makes want to throw up! My blood boils looking at this photo! Fuck those who have power and use their dick to get away with shit!

        Read the quote above and tell me that woman is concerned about Wall Street corruption. You can’t. Because clearly she is talking about being sexually assaulted. With histrionics, you have to read between the lines. There is always subtext. And that is where true intentions lie. A perfectly good political rally was wasted because sexual assault survivors hijacked it for their own agenda. They gave riot cops a reason to shut it down.

      • savorydish said

        “hysteria” is no longer used by mental health professionals to diagnose people who demonstrate extreme emotionality. And angry activists hate this word because it so accurately describes their behavior. It makes them hysterical. But I can think of no better word that sums up their existence.

      • savorydish said

        So how do you know you’re involved with a histrionic? Show them the photo above and watch them explode with outrage. Sometimes they hide that rage, but you will see them fuming. Just say something reasonable like “That cop was just doing his job”. A histrionic will lose it and say something like “How would you like it if your sister was fondled by a cop?!” or “All men are pigs!!!”.

  6. savorydish said

    @Sarah
    Since it’s 2014, you won’t have to worry about being diagnosed with hysteria or fondled by your psychiatrist. So feel free to go see a shrink. You would be doing all of us a huge favor.

    Also please don’t have children. Your comments will be posted when you can have an intelligent debate without being disruptive or making histrionic remarks.

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