Abandon Others Before They Abandon You

July 4, 2011

trigger alert: graphic depictions of cutting.

2 Responses to “Abandon Others Before They Abandon You”

  1. savorydish said

    As this video states, borderlines will abandon a relationship when they sense they are about to be abandoned. It doesn’t matter if their fears are real or not. They are always prepared to jump ship at the slightest sign that their partner may have become disenchanted with them or signs they have lost control of the relationship.

    Shame is also a factor. Especially if they are hyper-sensitive to notions of victim-blaming or slut-shaming. A borderline who betrays his/her partner doesn’t stick around long enough to accept blame. If you try to stop them, they will claw your face. The fear of shame is that pronounced.

  2. Hellish Ways said

    I’ve seen this video on You Tube. Are people with BPD aware of all the PAIN that THEY cause. All I see in this video is MEMEMEMEMEMEMEMEMEMEMEMEME!!!!

    Oh. I forgot. They have no emotional room for no one except themselves.

    I’m four months out of my nightmare with my BPD ex and I wouldn’t spit on him if he were on fire.

    You would think reckless after reckless relationship that they would go get help. But no. All they want to do is spread their hellish diabolical ways and cause emotional pain, damage, and turmoil to otherwise nice, loving and helpful people. They’re such users! I hope someone with BPD is reading this. I hope they read the forums of devastation. There are people who are choking/grasping for air from the aftermath of BPD love.

    I know all about BPD and they’re nothing but grade A blood sucking parasitical opportunists. If they’re sick why don’t they get help instead of screwing everything that moves.

    There’s a special place in hell for Borderlines. Sorry. No empathy or compassion here. They’re weak. Not strong. Strong people own up to their actions and take personal responsibility for their actions.

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