Weiner Weiner Pumpkin-Eater

June 7, 2011

When a cheater is confronted, they lie. They cover up their tracks with absurd stories. But when they’re busted, they cry. Not real tears. The kind for show. They want you to believe they are “deeply sorry”. But this is just another act. This is how you know you are dealing with a narcissist. Narcissists love the political stage, because they love to grandstand. They love to feel important. But mostly they love themselves. Which means they have little love for those around them.

But it’s not just men who think with their… weiner. My borderline ex knows a lot about cheating. She is a cheater just like Weiner. And yes, sexting is cheating. If you have to hide your behavior, it’s cheating. Cheaters want you to believe their acts of indiscretion are isolated incidents, but the truth will reveal that this is a pattern of behavior. Most likely their parents were cheaters. People don’t just wake up one day and decide they’re going to be cheaters. This misbehavior is ingrained in them from a young age. It should not surprise you that there were multiple women involved with Weiner-gate.

Anthony Weiner should have known better. But when you are conditioned for bad behavior, intelligence is thrown out the window. This behavior suggest a serious personality disorder. If you can’t control your impulses, then you have a serious problem. When your behavior is so destructive it destroys your career and your family, that is a red alert.

Maybe we can all learn from the Congressman’s mistakes. He has taken the first step to recovery. He’s come clean. Admitting your mistakes is the first step to clearing your conscience. But with narcissists, everything is for show. Even a show of remorse. As a narcissist, the possibility of change is slim to none.

4 Responses to “Weiner Weiner Pumpkin-Eater”

  1. savorydish said

    Narcissist don’t like to be called out. That’s why their initial response is moral outrage. “How dare you accuse me of such things!” Then they cover it up with preposterous stories. “I was hacked!” “I was drugged!” “The Devil made me do it!” But when they realize the world won’t buy their bullshit anymore, they cry you a river.

    If you haven’t noticed there have been a lot of scandals lately. It’s tempting to believe this is a new phenomena. But narcissist have been with us since the dawn of man. The only difference is narcissists can’t hide anymore. We live in a multi-media world. If you do wrong, people will know about it.

  2. savorydish said

    Notice how he made sure to remind the audience that “he has worked very hard for the people of NY.” Let’s be clear- Narcissists work for themselves. Any impression that they are doing it for the team is more narcissistic bullshit. Oh sure, in public they act like do-gooders. But their private lives paint a very different picture.

  3. savorydish said

    Cheating is not about sex. It’s about filling the void that can never be filled. A narcissist is an attention-whore. They can never get enough. They are obsessed with themselves. They must be the center of attention at all times. Everything they do screams “Look at me!” “Love Me!” “Validate me!” “Feel Sorry for Me!” If a partner doesn’t give them 24 hr attention they turn to the internet, their mobile phones and anyone will give them some attention.

  4. savorydish said

    It’s too bad, because I actually thought Weiner was one of the good guys. But at least he had the decency not to act like a victim of media harassment. If you get caught, take your licks. Own up.

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