More False Allegations

February 15, 2011

My Dearest Shady Sady,

Nobody is “twisting” your personal stories against you. True, your stories do provide great insight into your troubled mind. But we hardly need to know your past, to determine your current state of mind. Your behavior in the last week alone speaks volumes about you.

If you don’t want people to characterize you as an “unhinged bitch” then stop acting like an unhinged bitch. If you can’t control your behavior that is a sign that you desperately need help.

I realize that you were victimized and traumatized a long time ago. I am aware that you are compensating for that frightened child who was afraid of “stiff breezes”. But now you have gone from victim to abuser. You have OVER-compensated. You have gone from victim to victimizer.

This has nothing to do with feminism. It has everything to do with the unresolved pain you feel inside. I don’t need to know the details of your life to see this pain. I don’t need to “twist” your stories to reveal what is painfully obvious to everyone except you and your mob.

You’re right, I am some random person. A random person YOU decided to target and antagonize. And now you’re going to act like you’re the victim? the martyr? Do you realize how psychotic that is? YOU are victimizing yourself. You have tarnished your own reputation by acting like a disruptive child who is desperate for attention. Clearly, you are crying out for help. So get it.

Acknowledge the fact that you have an insatiable need for chaos and conflict. Chaos created by you. YOU are the one making your life miserable. You’re Lindsay Lohan without the perks of fame. You are repeating the past. Can’t you see that?

The fact that you have an army of followers only reminds us that the emotionally unstable need structure and guidance. History is replete with examples of delusional people following the orders of mad men and women. You have amassed an online collection of enablers, nothing more. People conditioned to admire the emperor’s new clothes. This is collective denial.

You’re right, I can’t stop you. I can only try to make you and others aware of your own folly. But if you wish to continue this train wreck, I will gladly step aside and watch you ride off the cliff. But if you think I’m going to allow you to take me with you, you’ve got another thing comin.

7 Responses to “More False Allegations”

  1. savorydish said

    It’s kinda eerie how similar Shady is to my ex. They both have unresolved pain and both have chosen to live in denial. Both have been abused but continue abusing others. And both have chosen writing and feminism as a means to lash out. Now you know why she fights for a woman who she hardly knows. They are kindred souls. That is- troubled souls.

    If you want to know what my ex was like, take a good look at Shady. If you want to know what our relationship was like in its very last days, take a good look at the way Shady baits and then tries to manipulate me into thinking she is the martyr after viciously attacking me.

  2. savorydish said

    I find it odd that the mob is having such a hard time with the tell-all format of my blog. Especially, now after I’ve had a chance to read all your blogs. Many containing your own tell-all stories. Stories of your own abusive experiences.

    I actually applaud anyone who would share “too much” about themselves, including Shady. I suppose you can interpret it as me using that info against you. Or you can interpret it as me showing you how your past has affected your present.

    Remember I’m not showing you anything that isn’t already apparent. All that is left is for you to connect the dots. Most of you have dark past, but there’s no reason to be ashamed of it. As long as you are working towards a brighter future.

  3. savorydish said

    I’m not your enemy. Denial is your enemy. Someone like Skye has been through the same crap you have, but she has made her life an open book. So sharing too much is not a problem. Denial is the problem.

    The problem with people like Shady and my Ex is both of them have created this alter ego. They have spent their whole life hidden behind a false persona- a false sense of security and strength. So they’re afraid to come out. They lash out at me because I have outed them. Because they’re afraid that if people see the real them, those people will reject them. So the folly continues.

    But here’s the rub. You can’t heal until you embrace your true self. And you can’t do that until you step out of that false persona. So the next move is yours.

  4. savorydish said

    “you’re probably right. it’s totally her attention-whoring and then getting butthurt when people use it to take her down a peg or two.”
    I have to agree with you Jello.

  5. savorydish said

    Come back soon jello!!!

  6. savorydish said

    Nobody is faulting you (Shady) for talking about rape. You should talk about it. Any victim should talk about their abuse.

    But when you use it as an excuse to be abusive yourself or to play the martyr, then you are exploiting your rights. That is what makes you an opportunist. The fact is you have become very popular and have made money with this act. Which is why you continue milking it.

    You and Baby Garland may have fooled your minions into believing that you fight for social justice. But all you’re really doing is feeding your ego and watering down the issue of rape. That’s right, I said it.

    When you keep crying wolf, eventually society ignores you to shut out the constant noise. You are helping no one. Not even yourself.

    If you really want to help young women, you will preach the message that all women should take responsibility for their own well-being. That includes seeking treatment if you have been traumatized or have a personality disorder. This would be a lot more productive than preaching man-hate.

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